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With that said, whoever you choose to love, realize that you are also choosing to love a set of problems. There are no problem-free candidates. Problems are a part of any relationship, and you will have some sort of problems no matter who you love.
But if Andrew had married Molly, he and Molly would have gotten into a fight before they even got to the party. That's because Andrew is always late and Molly hates to be kept waiting. If someone is late, Molly feels taken for granted; something in her childhood made her sensitive about.
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If Molly were to confront Andrew on being wohld, Andrew would have believed her complaining was an attempt to dominate. That's something he gets upset over rather quickly. If Andrew had married Leah, they wouldn't have even made it to the party, because they would be fighting about Andrew's lack of help with the housework.
This makes Leah feel abandoned, something that makes her stomach queasy. And Andrew would have seen Leah's complaining as an attempt to dominate. Since we are never perfect and our partners are never perfect, our imperfections are bound to cause two types of problems: solvable problems and unsolvable problems. Solvable conflicts can be as simple as setting up a relationship ritual such as a five minute coffee chat to feel more emotionally connected.
Solvable conflicts reach a resolution and rarely get brought up. Meet John Gottman. He is the Muhammad Ali of relationships. In each one of John's books, he points out this: The idea that couples must resolve all their problems is a fairytale.
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In fact, relationship conflict is natural and has functional, positive aspects. When we fight and Southern Caringbah swingers, it teaches us how to love better, how to take a step back from the "problem" to understand our partners better. It teaches us how to work with change in our relationships as it evolves.
It reminds us of why we choose our partners, and allows us to renew our relationship over time. These perpetual conflicts are a byproduct of the fundamental differences between partners.
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Over time the partners become more and more entrenched in their positions and the friction between them grows. Quercus Community Udeal. ❶Thanks so much Venessa, I am glad you have found your soulmate.
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